You have to build relationships first

What I want you to do,” Pretty On Top told them, “is help people put up their tepees or tents. Don’t mention the church. Don’t preach. Go out there and help them. You have to build relationships first.

I've been thinking a lot about the most effective ways to minister to people, to tell people about Jesus in a genuine manner that affects their heart. Is the most effective way to start every conversation with Jesus loves you and proceed from there, or is the most effective way to spend time with people and gain an actual friendship which then would lead to discussions about Jesus etc.

Both ways work, it's just how effective are they. How effective is bombarding someone you don't know with Jesus? I see door to door salesman as annoying, no matter what their product is, but they do make sales otherwise they wouldn't do it. The same goes for evangelizing in the same manner.

On the other hand, it seems nice to say that we should build relationships first then start talking about Jesus. That one seems the most genuine externally, that someone would take time out of their life to help another person. It builds loyalty and respect for both parties, and God knows we need more discipleship to accompany our evangelizing. My only problem for this approach is a "What if." What if someone your helping dies suddenly before you get to the point of telling them about Jesus?

Anyway, this article about Rev. Pretty On Top getting a new church building opens up later into his philosophy for the Church and loving God.

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Piermont church a couple Sunday’s ago.

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Inside San Juan Chamula’s church

This religious syncretism has been misunderstood by the non-indian visitors; Tzotzil and Tzeltal ceremonies have more to do with their conception of Nature, life and death and how they had introduced the Catholisism into their own conceptions and ceremonies, than witchcraft.

It is hard for us to understand why inside the church they drink aguardiente (tough liquor) and bring eggs and candles, that there aren’t any benches to sit, that they cover their saints and put mirrors on them, etc.  But I think we just need to be more open minded and respect them, which is something that unfortunately not many Mexicans do.

A Blessed Day

After church we drove some, ate at McDonalds, then read at Barnes and Noble.  At three p.m. JesusFirst then threw us a wedding shower.  Pastor Kim was great as this shower was more than Megan and I ever expected.  Overall, I think there were nearly 20 people that came bearing gifts. Here’s a non-definitive list of our swag (p.s. I never say ‘swag’):
  • a toaster oven, my fav.
  • a blender
  • a crock pot
  • a mixer
  • a five piece baking set
  • a blanket
  • some decorative things, Megan knows more about that stuff than I do.
  • and cash.
We also handed out a few of our financial appeal brochures and set up two meetings.  Monthly support here we come.  I wished I had thought earlier and asked Pastor Mark to say something about YWAM and show the new DTS promo video during the service.  There were several people there that I would like to see do a DTS. After the wedding shower we were prayed and prophecied over in the sanctuary by the Pastors and some of my mom’s friends.  One of the many good things about having an intercessor as a mom is her intercessor friends.  Many things were spoken over us that sounded good at the time.  Since then, many things have been forgotten, but I can remember a lot of words that confirmed what God’s been speaking to us about ministry. Today was a good day.  The rest of the week will be extremely busy as we try to gain monthly financial supporters, which means interacting with people.  Something that neither of us really like to do, but can.  Megan's better at it than me.